Well I think there is a time and a place for everything. Each situation brings up different possible out comes with an infinitely differing path to each end. Some times you'd be amazed at what happens when you think outside the box and try something new.
..couple examples...
#1.
Friend and I go to the bar every weekend when we're younger. My friend is trying to hit on this girl we both seen from across the bar. He does the walk up and say hi scenario. Well she looks bored to me so I walk up behind her and start sniffing her all over like some pooch sayin hi to a bitch in heat. With in seconds she turns around grabs my hand and we're out doin the dirty on the dance floor (ah those were the days). I never did get her name nor her I but it was fun.
#2.
I used to work 3rd shift in a factory and I'd get out at 7 am and hit the gym and come home and collapse on the couch. Like clockwork as soon as I was falling deep asleep some telemarketer would call and wake me up ( I had to have my phone on {on-cal}). I would get pissed and say something rude and hang-up. Now incensed I wouldn't be able to sleep over my fury. Until one day. I decided to have a little fun. The call came so I picked up the phone but I didn't say anything at first. The person would say something like 'sir are you there?', that's when I pulled out the creepiest perv voice I could come up with and responded, ' i like donuts'. 'sir?'. 'i like the ones with holes in them'. 'ah, ok sir i'd like to ask you about'...'i rub them all over my body... and then i like to dance in my tu-tu!'. Click! I laughed my ass off and then had a good sleep. The next couple times they called I did the same thing but they were calling so their friend could hear it. Then the calls stopped for the most part. Problem solved and I had fun!
So even though there is research say this and people who'd rather do that, it depends on the person and the situation , but to say it always has to be one way is always gonna be only half right no matter how many pediatricians agree! Half right is someone else's half wrong.
End of debate.
where's that popcorn, I just worked up a hunger, Romans you got lots o butter right?
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